It's awkward to open a blog with doubts about the value of technology trends. Before eyes go rolling, let me defend myself. I once jumped into computer technology, stumbling through with no real training. Even in the worst of my learning curve, I could see how helpful computer programs could be. If something made me nervous, I was driven to try it, although I did have a bit more time in those days.
My concern with the virtual world is that it takes time, attention and resources away form our "here and now" life. I did not say "real life" because to some of us, virtual is very real. What I mean here is that hours spent blogging, watching YouTube etc. are hours not spent talking to our families, pursuing other passions, and generally being in the here and now. Most of us don't have time for our "First Life," never mind our "Second Life." And our kids seem happiest when they are zoned out with a video or a video game. It just seems like we disassociate, and the virtual world gives us a place to run to.
Interesting that while we have these virtual pulls on us, The Buddhist concept of "mindfulness" is a competeting value that is gaining in popularity these days.
I attended a Webinar the other day on TeenSecondLife and was duly impressed with the opportunities offered for teens to learn, practice their interests, try out social interaction somewhat anonymously. I am not saying we should ignore, or not explore tech trends. So here I am exploring. But I am going to do my best to give the "here and now" its due.
Lo, as I was signing up on Bloglines and choosing RSS feeds, I read on "The Shifted Librarian" an article that speaks to this topic better than I could. Jenny posted May 30, 2007 this thought.
"You can't do it all, and admitting it is okay. This online stuff, it's great. We *love* living in this time, right? It's fun, it's constant learning, it's empowering and alluring if you love learning and information. All of those tools at our fingertips to learn about and play with, all to help people. It's beyond cool.
But it's not your life, nor should it be. You have to learn to let some of it go and then be okay with that (which is the hard part). Michael Stephens talks a lot about how librarians need to let go of the "culture of perfect." For the younger bibliobloggers I will add that you have to learn to let some of the pressure go. You physically cannot keep up with it all, so beating yourself up over failing to do so is pointless."
How about that? Meanwhile, I will continue trying out the techie trends, making sure I am not missing anything to enhance my "here and now" life.
2 comments:
At the risk of making enemies right out of the gate I'd have to say that I don't think you need to worry about the younger librarians worrying about "doing it all."
I don't think they do worry about it. Am I crazy? I think that worry thing is definitely a "boomer" trait that we 50 somethings share. Maybe I've been listening to Buckley's Boomsday for too long. I swore I wouldn't finish it because it's so mean spirited but I'm still at it.
I'll add you to my favorites Andrea!
I just found your blog through your new blog and felt compelled to comment. As a next generation librarian and mindfulness-seeking student of Buddhism and embracer of technology I can say that I work hard at being in the moment of whatever I do. Sally is right, in a certain respect. I don't worry about "doing it all" but I made choices long ago to account for that. I knew I couldn't be a wife and mother like my mother and a doctor like my father with without someone suffering and I wasn't willing for it to be the children so I chose not to go to medical school. Turns out...no children. But I don't think you can "have it all" without consequence. I believe in work hard play hard and I devote myself to that. I think alot of people nibble at their lives and then get frustrated that they are never sated but I feel like I make a meal out of my work, my goof off time at work, my time at home, my sleep, my vacations, my time entertaining friends, etc. I have never been more productive. I love my life and I feel like I am the luckiest girl in the world.
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